One Saturday night; at my cousin’s home, we were watching how to lose a guy in 10 days. When my cousin's brother suddenly shows up, together with his guy friends; one of his friend commented on the movie as he had already watched it; he said "why are girls having their moodswings?" It let us pause and look at each other's eye as he was saying stuff. When my ate got annoyed, she turned off the tv, and get some nachos for us to eat.(huh?) As she puts the nachos on the table, I had the feeling that it will be a start of a riot. She said "cge nga, what can't you guys understand about us girls?, since nagiinarte ka diyan." What happened next was a pillow fight. Gladly, my aunt was not there, so no one will disturb us from having a sort of fun. At first, we thought that most of the questions will threw back at us, but the funny thing was, at the end of the "fun thing" we have seen ourselves favoring their side.
GIRLY THINGS that Baffle guys
>>Why is it that girls can't go to the 'CR' alone?
This was the first question my cousin’s guy friend asked. Honestly, this comfort room thing is like a bonding time for us girls. We tend to say “hey, let’s go to the bathroom” and all of us will go there altogether for a reason. Most of us girls are more comfortable going to the bathroom in groups than going there alone. This is the time for refreshing ourselves and talking about the boys that we’re with.
Listen: Try minimizing your time in the comfort room. And try to learn going to the comfort room alone, so that we will not think that you are talking about us.
>>What's with the mood swings?
Girls has a tendency for a sudden mood swings because of her anxiety towards her surroundings. Problems and disorders are the cause of girls’ mood swings. You just need to adjust to their attitude especially during their monthly period to avoid chaos.
Listen: You should try controlling your temper, and do not reason out your periods as cause of your sudden mood swings. Because, it drives us crazy. Just be direct. Say what you don't like, to avoid "misunderstanding."
>>What's with the frequent change of mind?
Girls do change their mind because they want to satisfy themselves with their wants. Like whenever you ask them where to eat, they will say KFC, and then suddenly wants to eat at Max restaurant. They tend to think first the pros and cons of a certain thing before they decide on what they will do. Because a girl wants to be assured that they made the right choice.
Listen: Girls frequent change of mind sometimes irritates us, because it consumes lot of time by only deciding on where you girls want to eat. You need to understand that boys get bored easily.
>>Why do girls always ask if they are fat? And when you say that "she is not" she would accuse you as a liar but when you say she is, will get mad at you.
There are a lot of questions a girl tends to ask to boys not only about their vital statistics. Accusation and Madness is not real, it is only a way of keeping the girls from their real reaction to what boys will answer to such question. Girls always ask such questions because she needs to be reminded on how beautiful she is.
Listen: To those girls who ask such questions either for trick or test boys. Stop it. You should learn to accept and feel beautiful with how you look. You don’t need to feel insecure with others.
>>Why do girls always look at the mirror?
Girls are vain by nature. They always want to look at the mirror to see if they are still beautiful. If their make-up are still on and if their face is already oily; however, unconsciously, they tend to compete w/ each other. Thus, we say “Mirror Mirror on the wall; who’s the fairest of them all?”
Listen: Don’t wear too much make up, put only make up that is related to the event that you are attending or going to. Simplicity is Beauty. A boy sees the personality more than of the face; nevertheless, no matter how you look at the mirror to fix yourself. If your attitude is too peevish, make up will not fix it for you.
>>Why do girls love shopping?
Shopping is where all the girls release their tension, stress, and sadness. Shopping for girls is not just a fancy but a need as well. Shopping in all aspect, gives beauty to our day, and gives light to our life. New clothes, shoes, accessories, bags and other stuff add up to the personality of a girl.
Listen: try saving your money for the most needed things. Because boys are not concern if your bag, clothes, shoes, or accessories are new. What matters to us is that you are comfortable with what you wear and you are confident to show who you truly are.
>>Why do girls keep diaries/journal?
Well, I think there is nothing wrong by keeping diaries/journals. Like all other human beings. Girls sometimes want to be alone and write her memorable experience. We actually keep diaries and journals because it is an outlet to blurt out what our voice can't speak.
Listen: It is a great idea to keep track of your memorable experience, but make sure that you keep it in a safe place that your brother, sister, friends and maids will not see. It is also a big “no! no!” to bring your diaries/journals at the mall, party or a date.
