Sad Reality...

I ran across a person's post (let's call her by the name "pat") on twitter, telling everyone to watch this video. I became curious though and watched it, just to figure out what's in there, that she shared it to everyone.

It was named "Toughest Place to be a Bus Driver", a documentary of BBC about Rogelio Castro's life and also a challenge for Josh West, a London bus driver to live in Manila for 10 days, just to be able to learn and experience the life of a person who lives in a slum.

(This video was just the 1st of 6 parts)

I watched it for almost an hour and a half, and I am really shocked with what I saw. I am a Filipino and yet I still get confused if it really does exist. I never knew that we have soo many Slums here in our country. I've been living here for 21years and the only slummy place I'd ever saw were the one's in Libertad in Mandaluyong and the other one was the street at the back of our school, where we were asked to take a survey, adopt a family and even give a noche buena. It was a project of the school every Christmas. Their place wasn't that slum, because I've seen that they have flat screen televisions and stuff, but there were quite few though.

Anyway, I just have too many questions in my head right now, like why did it happen? who's fault is it anyway? How long they can survive it? etc...

Honestly, I don't like watching those documentaries that involved people having too much sickness, too much poverty, and too much struggle in life, because I can't help but cry. And the worst part was I can't do anything about it, I won't be able to help them, but this was different, it involves challenge and just a little struggle. Though it made me cry at some point.

Moreover, If you're going to watch this documentary, you will encounter these things that will caught your attention, since it really caught mine: (1) the way drivers drive along the road were really frightening, (2) the way they pursue getting a lot of passengers just to survive in a single day(I now understand why they were acting like that at the road: http://khukai-gossiphink.blogspot.com/2010/08/kwentong-dyip.html), (3) the way some people collect food leftovers, cook them in such way and eventually sell? it to other people, and (4) the way they live in such a small place with too many of them in that house.

As I am downloading each part of BBC's documentary, I've seen some links at the right side of youtube, some documentaries about the Philippines, and I also get interested in this video, so I clicked and watched it. The video was not that long, unlike the one I've posted in the upper part(hehe).

This tackles about abortion. The pro and the anti. And the Church and politics views. It was the entitled "Philippines-City of Guilt".

(1st of 2 parts)

Over the past years, the politicians and the church were fighting about the Reproductive Health Bill which was popularly known as RH Bill, a Philippine bill aiming to guarantee universal access to methods and information on birth and maternal care(see wikipedia). And still on the process of debate up until now.

Overpopulation was one of the major problems in our country today, which they were trying to solve by the use of a certain bill. But as for me, it's not a matter of what kind of bill it was, and what were there stand about that. What I think was the right way to solve it, was having the 'D' word, and the 'D' word that I'm talking about was "Discipline".

We were raised by our parents well. We were given proper education, proper knowledge which as we grow older get stocked in our mind. And with that knowledge we were able to know what's right or wrong and what's good or bad. And as to what was happening in our country, we know for a fact what were the problems that our generation was facing, so we know what we can do just to not add for that problem. And yet we were being eaten by "Too Much Curiosity" which itches some people to eagerly know everything. And that's wrong.

Why am I saying those things? Because I hate it when some people choose to have many children and eventually, blames poverty and the government when they struggle in their everyday living.

I had a BAD DAY...

"Cause you had a bad day, you're taking one down

You sing a sad song just to turn it around"

This is my song for myself today, because I really had a bad day.

Valentine's Day Celebration; Fe'B'ru'AR'y 2011

Wonder how SINGLE's celebrate Valentine's Day. Well I'll tell you how. Every year, me and my cousins go out on a valentine's day, whether it was a dinner, shopping or partying. Since we don't have a valentine's date, 'DATE-DATE', we prefer going out together. Last December, my cousin just turned 18, and to baptized her, it was her which we asked to where we should go this valentine's day, so since she loves drinking, we know exactly where she want to go, and our instincts were right. She wants to go in a BAR. We all agreed with what she just suggested since it's the place where it will not be full of lovers. Months passed and February came, we thought everything was already settled yet on the last minute, a friend of my older cousin suggested the 'TX' bar(not its real name), we checked it on the internet, and the ads were good, and the food was scrumptious. But due to midterm examinations, my cousin had to pass on the V'day. We just go on it anyway...

February 14... Happy Hearts Day Everyone!!!

"An X Dinner at TX BAR"

So there, we went to the TX bar, the venue was nice, and the acoustic performers were doing great. We arrived early (as far as I remember), plus we were hungry. The venue wasn't crowded, like I can count on my beautiful fingers(haha!) as to how many people were there to eat. The flower petals, flower and candle centerpiece were cute. And we enjoy staying there for a while. Not until we ordered our food, We ordered pasta's, rice and some dish.

See , we were still smiling!!! My cousin ordered first and after two hours her food was served and right after a few hours our food was also being served.Almost 3 and a half hours of waiting for our food. Can you imagine how starved and bored we were during that time.

See the food on the right side, that’s the rice that we had waited for that long. We just teased each other that maybe they want to shape it that way perfectly. So, they serve the food that late. We were soo annoyed. Oh! Before I forgot we also ordered a bottomless iced tea, to which they didn't care of refilling every now and then, even though it’s empty. Plus when they refill that they intentionally pour it in my cousins bag, it got wet of course, which the waiter didn't apologize for. Argh!

This was the receipt of that bar. See how they compute it manually, and how it was written. That we didn't let pass. Our anger started to burst. I blur the name of the BAR using adobe photoshop (just to be safe). Anyway, I've seen something wrong in this receipt: 1. As what I've mention it was not a normal receipt. Like the printed ones' (look! it was like a receipt of a supply, like hammer, nails paint & stuff) right?!

2. The address written on it was not their address, but the address of their main branch (I smell something fishy). And lastly.

3. See how blank it was. Some required fields wasn't fill-in by the store cashier or to whoever duty it was.

We decided to call the manager, as to discussed what happened so they will know what's going on with their bar, we told him that they have a poor service. He asked why, we said that they had late food service, that there were no waiters roam around just to fill-in the drinks, there were no at least nuts, chips in their tables just for us(customers) could eat while waiting for the food to be served and that their waiter didn't apologize when she intentionally pour her bag with iced tea. In my shocked the manager didn't apologize at first and just said that we just waited that long because they had customers on the left side of the bar. Which made us feel that we were their less priority. Then my cousin asked him "as a manager what will you do with this incident?" There, I think he noticed that he needs to say sorry. He just say "sorry" and walked out" even add on to our receipt a service charge. TOO BAD!!! We immediately go out of that bar after we had paid everything. We then promise to ourselves that we will not go back in that BAR again. LIKE NEVER! NEVER!

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'GLADLY, "ELBOW ROOM" BAR WAS THERE TO SAVE OUR DAY!!!'

After the annoying dinner at an annoying bar. We transfer to another bar just to relax ourselves from what had happened. And yes! We enjoyed it like bigtime. We just realized that If only we figured out that this bar doesn't strictly require customers to be on their guestlist, we will not waste our time with the bar that we had gone to. But anyway, Elbow Room Bar was a huge bar, like it can accommodate at least 300 people I think. It has billiard table on both sides (for those who want to play billiards) and in the center was where the band sings and where the party goes. They have also rooms for the v.i.p, which was good if you don't want to hear the loud band and if you don't want to smell the smoke of other customers. What I like about this bar was they served the food fast, the waiters were everywhere to assist you, and the band was not boring. It was totally the opposite of the TX BAR.

Me, and my cousins!!!

Drinking Time!!!

WE ARE SOO LUCKY TO HAVE EACH OTHER!!! =)

Keep in 'TOUCH' this FEBRUARY

Last Friday I heard the good news. Weee! I finally saw the light after the long process of waiting for our papers to be cleared, and physical examination to be completed. =p It was 4pm, just an hour before our out at the office. The cash department just told us that our papers has been finished, our appointment has been completed and our salary has just arrived. woohoo!. haha. I was shocked then, because a week before I'm making a list on what to do with my money (my salary is just enough for our monthly expenses/bills). And yet the cashier just gave us a good news.

As I get my salary, I told my mom that I would be able to give just 1/4 of my salary because I have to buy new gadgets for myself, for my job actually. And I love her for being soo understanding. I am confused on what to buy since I am being too kuripot. And my mind was surrounded by what I want and what's practical.

Saturday, I asked my cousin to join me at the mall to buy one of my Christmas wish. Of course, I told her that I would use her credit card, so I will not have a hard time paying it, only for a couple of months. We went to this mall and canvass for this gadget, and I was surprised that it was that expensive pala, So we decided to transfer to another mall, and there I had found this gadget at a very affordable price.

ipod touch 4G

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Sunday, my phone give up serving me. ehehe from out of nowhere it hangs and turn itself off. And from there, I can't open it anymore, I try to revived it. I tried charging it for half an hour, and still, its off. So I have no choice but to declare that my phone dies. :( we've been together for almost 5years. And it was my favorite. =( But then again, since cellphone is a necessity. Our office publisher sponsored me. She gave me a new phone. Thanks to her. She asked me about my favorite color to which I responded quickly. And there. I have a brand new phone.

Nokia C3

What's nice about it was that, Even though I failed to buy a sony ericsson vivaz/blackberry for the reason that I could not afford it like really. I am thankful that I had 2 gadgets to fulfill that failure. hahaha (like as if it was a big deal). I would tell that it was a good decision since, I afford that gadget of mine. While, if I buy those selected phones, I would only spend all my salary and suffer for 2weeks of no allowance. It was a good decision and a BEST buy. I think...=)

Horse Luck this 2011

Everybody is preparing for the Chinese New Year, and just today most of the program is set as to welcome the year of the rabbit. Like later, there will be a countdown and fireworks display at Quirino Grandstand in Rizal Park. Of course, it will be nicer if everyone will wear red, as a sign of wealth and happiness; and will bring tangerines/oranges as a sign of good health and long life.

Chinese as I've noticed is our basis for what's lucky or what's not. And which zodiac needs to be careful this year. So, since I want to know what will be my luck, I research for their prediction to the luck of the "Horse", and my luck will be:

The Horse

Fun, charming and attractive sums up the Horse’s traits perfectly. They love parties and crowds and being the centre of attention. They can also be egotistical, hotheaded and impatient. The Horse is a considerate and protective friend and partner and when in his company, there will always be excitement around the next corner.

Horse Fortune in 2011:

The horse will experience good fortune in the Year of the Rabbit, especially for female. You will encounter a nobility in your work this year who will assist you in your work. There is a good opportunity for promotion and pay rise as well, but you should be careful of disputes with each another. In this year of good fortune, business will be blooming but you must know how to hold on to the money. Do not be misled into believing the words of villains into a money scam. You must also take precautions against theft, lock your windows and doors. This year is a good year to meet the opposite sex and it is time to consider about your future happiness. Health is not good this year so pay more attention to exercise and get ample of rest.

Horse Career in 2011:

For the horse this year, they must have a ‘more work less talk’ mentality during work. In the case where they encounter a problem, they should remain low profile while trying to resolve it. Try not to make unnecessary comments as it will only lead to trouble. Career fortune for female is excellent. Due to the outstanding work performance, expect a pay rise or promotion. However, they must be wary of people who may make false charge against them. All factors must be carefully considered before being a guarantor for other people so as to not get involved in official or non-official lawsuit.

Horse Wealth in 2011:

With the assistance of the lucky star, you will have good income. However, there are signs that you may experience financial issues so avoid borrowing money to others easily as it will be difficult to retrieve them back. There are opportunities for pay rise in work, income will be steady and for businessmen, with the help of a nobility, you are able to make various kind of investment which will lead to profits. As your wealth come and go this year, it is more difficult to amass your wealth. You must learn some tips in financial management and save money when possible be it in life or investments. You should also take good care of your valuables.

Horse Love in 2011:

The love sign is blooming for the horse this year. Be it single or married, there is a good chance to meet the opposite sex. This is a good opportunity for the singles to get a partner if they take initiative to display their charm. This is also a good year for couples plan for their marriage. Married couples will enjoy a sweet relationship this year but must still be wary of 3rd parties that may appear. Communicate any discontent you may have and do not let small conflicts affect your relationship.

Horse Health in 2011:

Health is the main concern for the horse this year. With a weak body and immune system, they will be prone to cold and bacteria infections. The elderly should pay more attention to joint problems and must maintain a certain activity everyday for healthier bones. This year, you will also be prone to digestive problems. So, regular eating habits must be developed and pay more attention to food hygiene. Visit the doctor when required without delay to avoid deterioration of the illness.

Source:http://fengshui-doctrine.com/index.php?q=Horse-horoscope-in-2011.html

• Great news for those who are born the Year of the Horse! Your lucky stars are shining bright this year. As your luck is stable there is no need to switch careers. But take care to not to fall for scams and traps set by evil people. Businessmen should take good care of their subordinates. Business will be hectic, so, make sure you take a proper diet every day. Be careful with your actions and words during business or social networking sessions, as competitors will try to take advantage of them. Enjoy yet another year of good fortunes. Source: http://hubpages.com/hub/Chinese-Horoscope-2011-the-Year-of-the-Rabbit

• Forecast for 2011 The spotlight will have been on the Horse for much of 2010 with his sparkling company and friendship being frequently in demand. In 2011, the focus for the Horse will be on his career, with unexpected developments and promotional opportunities on the cards. He should watch events carefully, for when an opening occurs he will need to act fast and be alert. April, May and October and November will be encouraging months for moving ahead in work or indeed finding a new job altogether. Health and well-being will be on the minds of many Horses in the Chinese Year of the Rabbit and it’s a perfect time to re-think fitness routines and diet. Socially, as always, the Horse will be busy, with May to September and December being full of fun opportunities with friends. Attached Horses will fare better than single ones in 2011. If a new romance is on horizon, the Horse would be well advised to relax and let the relationship develop slowly and without rushing. March, September and October are prime months for finding someone special. The Horse is an adventurous soul by nature and may do some travelling to far-flung places in the Year of Rabbit. Financially there is a definite chance for the Horse to increase his earnings over the year and he should make every effort to manage his money carefully.
  Interesting Horse Facts:
  Zodiac Stone: Golden Topaz; Special Flower: Rose; Best Hours: 11am-1pm; Season: Summer and Horoscope Colors: Orange, White, Yellow. Source: http://www.moonslipper.com/chinese.html

Kung Hei Fat Choi Everyone!!! =)